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[popular on good articles] read Wang Yangming's "shexian'er" to teach children how to behave

2021-09-01 17:19:17 Life journey

Archaism cloud :“ Moral family heirloom , More than ten generations , Next came the ploughing and reading , Poetry and book are followed by family , Rich family heirloom , But three generations .”

Wang Yangming 《 Shexian'er 》, To show

Wang Yangming 《 Shexian'er 》

1, Diligent study , For baiban ( .

Knowledge affects vision , Vision determines pattern . read , Is the main way to acquire knowledge , It is the noblest with the lowest threshold .

Lamb knelt milk , The crow feedback , Filial piety , Is the human nature conscience . Let the child love reading from an early age 、 Filial piety , It is the top priority of wang yangming's family instruction .

2, Learn humility , Follow the etiquette .

Have an accomplishment , It's called “ Don't be a bitch because you are expensive ”. Teach children from an early age , Don't get cocky about your sense of superiority 、 defiant . And will be humble within , Into an outwardly polite manner .

Don't push yourself up , Do not put others down , Respect others to get their respect .

3, Day diet , Quit the game .

“ Eating well ”, It is the ancient people's attitude towards food . Living in one is easier to get fat 、 The age of the rich , I can't even control my figure , How to take control of your life ?

To have fun , It's the nature of children , But never overindulge in games . plaything , Must be weary in well doing . Don't aspire to , No talk of the future 、 Who, 、 Speaking is ?

4, Do not lie , Not greedy, .

The ancients said :“ Honesty is gold ”, The good faith , It is the foundation of being human , It is the greatest wealth of a child's life . Greedy , Seem to have , But it is lost ; Got the present , Have lost the future . The universe nurtures all things , And when 、 Greedy for too little ?

The one hundred - year - old employees , All the accounts were destroyed in a fire , The boss decides : All employees of an owe account shall return , All debts employees off our accounts . This is “ The small o , Big business stratagem ”.

5, Not harmonized appearances , No grudge .

《 Augmented xian wen 》 say , The heart is like a plain horse , Easy to put a hard to get . Harmonized appearances taste sex , Indulge your own temperament , uninhibited , It is a dangerous behavior that is easy to put away but difficult to receive . quarrelling 、 anger , impulsive , Even more irrational , You can't profit at the expense of others .

anytime , No one should be a slave to his own emotions . Let the child learn to control negative emotions , He was one step closer to success .

6, Do not blame others , But autonomy .

The significance of this family motto is this : discipline 、 Wide to treat people . That's hard to do , But it's hard , It has become ancient, modern, Chinese and foreign , From the ordinary to the outstanding a natural chasm .

The story of Yang zhen's refusal to accept bribes is well known : Face the bribe-giver “ No one will know ” The tone of , Yang zhen righteousness is the word of reply :“ Heaven knows you and earth knows me , How could no one know ?” Let children understand from an early age , The more self-discipline , The more freedom . Self-discipline , Is the best way to love yourself .

7, Can an inferior , Is interested in .

Gou jian, the king of yue, slept on brushwood and tasted gall , The recovery of ; Han xin's humiliation between his legs , Ten years grinding sword , Eventually meet democratic . Wang yangming said , As long as aspire to true , You can suppress your desires . A man of great ambition , I don't think I'm great , To bend and bend , Can an inferior .

Wang yangming thinks , Appreciate your child , To enrich a child's heart , They will be confident , calm , To see the good in others , Keep an open mind to improve yourself .

8, Can allowing people , Is do it .

All rivers run into sea , Tolerance is a great . The prime minister can prop up a boat in his stomach , The greater the mind , The greater the achievement . Really tough guy , Inner strength , To be able to tolerate their own shortcomings . Really tough guy , More room for others . Others weak , Don't despise ; Others succeed , Don't envy .

Can allowing people , You can't just teach , But also in every little bit of life , Cultivate in practice . Not repressing children , Enrich their hearts , Volume will lift all boats .

9, Every person , In the heart, ; Has a good , Is good, ; Evil minds , Is fierce class . Pi tree fruit , The heart is, ; If she bad , The fruit will fall .

Wang yangming was once killed by liu jin , Attacked by villagers at longchang . But he returned good for evil , Still believe in goodness , Help the villagers build houses 、 read 、 farming .

Archaism cloud :“ Moral family heirloom , More than ten generations , Next came the ploughing and reading , Poetry and book are followed by family , Rich family heirloom , But three generations .”

Like the fruit of the tree , Conscience is a , She is out of order , And the fruit fell .

Let your children be good people , Is the root of family prosperity .

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